Songwriters have dreams.
Songwriters dream about writing songs and building up a collection of work they’re proud of. We dream of garnering some sort of recognition for our craft. Even some of us dream of taking our songs to the stage, to the airwaves, across the country or the world. Songwriters have dreams and the
Songwriters have dreams, but dreams should always come with plans.
A dream without a plan is just a fantasy.
Dreams are beautiful, inspiring things. They provoke us, they wake us up, they give us the fire to get up and chase them. But a dream can just as easily slip through your fingers if you don’t back it up with a plan. Even the biggest, most intimidating dreams can come true if you give yourself the right kind of steps.
So let’s talk steps.
I want to get you to your dreams. I want you to run the marathon, pass go, collect $200, and then charge through the extra mile. So let’s start with step one: Defining your goals.
One of the most important questions every songwriter has to ask herself is this:
Step 1: Ask yourself, “Why am I doing this songwriting thing?”
You’ll want to define why you’re even doing this songwriting thing at all, so you can get a better understanding of where you can go.
Why do you write? What do you envision for yourself when you think about the future of your writing? What do you want to do with your songs? Where do you want to see them go? Do you want them to go anywhere at all?
Are you writing because you simply enjoy it, and would perfectly fulfilled if your songs never left your house? Do you want artists and bands to record them? Do you want to hear them on the radio? Do you want to sing them yourself and sell out global arena tours? Narrow down your goals so that you can start reaching them. All these examples require different paths and different mindsets.
So ask yourself, “Why am I doing this?” Be honest with yourself and it will serve your soul in the long run.
Step 2: Write down your big picture goals
These are the pie in the sky big dreams you have. The ultimate. The end all. The kind of stuff that seems impossible but your heart is still drawn so intensely toward them you fear you might burst. Write these bad boys down. (I suggest using a cute new notebook that inspires the heck outta you) Maybe they include:
- Getting a pub deal
- Becoming a staff songwriter
- Getting a Billboard #1 hit
- Getting multiple Billboard #1’s
- Winning a Grammy
Write down all your heavyweight dreams. Don’t tell yourself that they’re unrealistic or unachievable. Just write them down with no judgement on yourself.
Step 3: Start your goal outline – Break these big goals down into smaller pieces
Now, let’s chop up your path to these big goals. When you break down your biggest, most intimidating dreams into bitesized chunks, they start to feel a lot more achievable.
This backwards to break it down. What are the steps that will lead up to achieving your goal? Let’s use “Winning a Grammy for a song I’ve written” as an example. Disclaimer, here: I’ve never won a Grammy myself. I’ve had a song nominated, so I’m familiar with the nomination process and what it took to get to that point. So let’s roll with this for example purposes!
My main goal is to win a Grammy. Ok. So to do that, I have to have a song nominated.
Before that, the song needs to be cut by someone who has the resources to submit it for nomination.
Before that, it has to be a damn good song.
If I can’t write Grammy worthy damn good songs, I need to write more songs.
To do that, I may need to book more cowrites to build up my catalog and skills quickly.
Awesome, you’ve begun to outline your path to your goal! Let’s take this a step further.
Step 5: Break down each point on your outline
You can clearly see your dream starting to develop into an path, but there are still a lot of gaps to fill in. Like, how the heck can I get an artist or band to cut my song? When will I know a song is Grammy worthy? What even are the right resources to submit a song for nomination? Let’s fill in some of those gaps. Take a look at your outline and break down each section into actionable, achievable mini-goals.
My main goal is to win a Grammy. Ok. So to do that, I have to have a song nominated.
Research Grammy nomination process
Before that, the song needs to be cut by someone who has the resources to submit it for nomination.
Look into lead-sheets – RowFax, Taxi, Music X-Ray
Start pitching songs
Grow relationship with local artists/bands
Co-write with local artists/bands
Before that, it has to be a damn good song.
Submit current songs for critiques
Look into NSAI membership for critiques
Create a Frettie profile for critiques
Send songs to songwriter friends and ask for their input
Dedicate time to re-writes
Go on songwriter retreats
If I can’t write Grammy worthy damn good songs, I need to write more songs.
Commit to new writing schedule – ex. 1 new song a week
Clear time in your daily life to write every day
To do that, I may need to book more cowrites to build up my catalog and skills quickly.
Book co-writing sessions with songwriter friends
Make new songwriter friends by sending cold emails on NSAI or Frettie
Co-write with local artists/bands
This is not an exhaustive list to what it takes to win a Grammy. There’s a lot we could put in here, such as networking, making the move to a music center, recording demos for your songs, working with hit songwriters – the list could go on and on.
Whatever your goal may be, break it up into an outline full of mini goals. This will instantly make it feel less daunting.
Ok, now here’s where the magic happens.
Step 6: Give your mini-goals realistic dates
Date those bad boys! Be honest with yourself and assign dates that you realistically think you can meet. This is entirely based on you and your life and your schedule. No one can tell you what you do with your time. Give yourself a good mix of grace and kick-in-the-ass so you reach your mini-goals feeling good!
Grab your planner and start filling in your timeline:
My main goal is to win a Grammy. Ok. So to do that, I have to have a song nominated.
Research Grammy nomination process – This week
Before that, the song needs to be cut by someone who has the resources to submit it for nomination.
Look into lead-sheets – RowFax, Taxi, Music X-Ray – Tomorrow on lunch
Start pitching songs – This week
Grow relationship with local artists/bands – Spend this year getting to know local music scene personally
Co-write with local artists/bands – Book first session for 2 weeks from today
Before that, it has to be a damn good song.
Submit current songs for critiques – Start tonight!
Look into NSAI membership for critiques – Research today, purchase Friday (if necessary)
Create a Frettie profile for critiques – Tonight!
Send songs to songwriter friends and ask for their input – Friday…
You, my friend, now have a direct pathway to your goals. You know every little step you’ll have to take, and when you’re going to take it.
Feels good, right?
Make note of any roadblocks & plans around them
Of course, you may run into some stumbling blocks along the way. What if you don’t have the finances to demo that fantastic song you want to pitch? What if your local music scene is non-existant, and you need to plan a co-writing trip to Nashville? Things like this will come up along the way, so it’s good to try to anticipate them. Have a plan in place for anything you can foresee. Anything you can’t, adjust the path and stay the course.
Some final thoughts before you start chasing after those big dreams:
Find friends who are in it with you. They will be your support system. Journey together with them.
Meditate. Visualize. These techniques are more powerful than they seem.
Now that your goals are written down, keep them out where you can see them. Every day. Keep your eyes on the prize.
Hold yourself accountable. Be responsible for pulling your weight in this.
Don’t beat yourself up. Give yourself some grace. It’s ok if you don’t make that deadline every now and then, life happens.
Make a calendar. Set reminders. Hold yourself to it.
Dreams can change. And that’s ok, too.
Write on, friends.
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